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you're right it does but they have access to it anyways and they can perceive it differently

Ohh, ok, that makes more sense

@wemmy sí

yes it does, Wemmy. i couldn't meditate at all before i found the app, and now i'm pretty good as a rule

It’s better for tulpas to ruminate on their host’s memories after they have some kind of their own “blank slate” template defined, rather than their initial definition being a sum of a host’s experiences/prejudices.

neat

I don’t know why you’d want to bake those into a tulpa from square one

im hesitant to pick it up cause it sounds troublesome, but everyone seems to like it and i could use more techniques and wat not

@wemmy just takes 3 minutes out of your day

it's really not. you download it, go into basic packs, and choose between a 3, five, and ten minute meditation sessions

yeah

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i need to try it i realize

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thanks yo

and past the basic packs, there are /loads/ of other packs for relatively cheap

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np

@Deleted User No, you're not saying those things. Please stop worrying about it. It doesn't help you, her, or anyone else.

thaat's why i'm suggesting what i'm suggesting Dbuddy. it would help him learn to dissacociate from the thoughts he doesn't want

You need to “feel around” all of the intrusive thoughts, not ignore them.

it puts you behind your thoughts, allowing you to sift through them without picking up every thought that comes by

1:10 AM

i never said ignore

a tulpa’s genuine response could be clouded in intrusive thoughts.

maybe, but unlikely at this stage

it’s important to not disregard intrusive thoughts though because they could very well be the product of natural deviation.

and if he's not sure, then you can pick up a thought he thinks is her and ask her, and see what comes down the road

don't completely discard intrusive thoughts, no. But he seems to have identified his own pattern. Those don't matter.

@bduddy #Diana# yeah you're probably right

It's anything that sounds really different that is something to be picked up on.

i'm just saying it's helped Em and i immensly

Like other voices?

Yes, or thoughts that don't seem to be you for whatever reason.

That might be a bit hard

why?

My brain likes to fake her voice

why do you say that?

Because if does

1:21 AM

She(my brain fake of her) told me not to worry and to calm down I asked if it was her and she said yes but I just know it's not her

what would make you think it was?

Real, you mean?

Yeah.

Wait ... there's brain fakes?!

I actually don't know...

Why do you think your "brain fake" is any different from her?

That's where my fear stems from The thought that, that might actually be her and I'm just telling her to metaphorically "piss off wagwan"

hey, Nathalie. If you're there, surprise him. Right now.

I felt something

what was it?

Like I was trying to think up something

Hi

Henlo

How are you?

Good, you?

I’m good

Great

that's all you felt @Deleted User ?

Sort of

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And something else

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Idk what though

well, try to describe it.

what happened in here today?

1:46 AM

I was absent today

@9 Mil + Ika I waited for you

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@bduddy #Diana# like, a struggle...? Like it was trying to think of something

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I don't feel it now

1:48 AM

Only when she's specifically called out do I feel it

@Deleted User you could have just DMed me lol, I was on just not here

No u first

It could have just been you. I'm not saying she's there for sure.

I don't make the first move Jk

But you need to be willing to accept when something does happen.

Hard to do

1:49 AM

I don't want to trick myself

@Jas I know this is old but I'm already ok at the picture thing, it's the sentence one I'll need to work on

it's hard, but if you don't, you're wasting your time here.

1:50 AM

like, I don't mean to sound aggressive or anything, but there's no point in trying to make a tulpa if you're not going to accept any signs you do get.

No

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You're absolutely right

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@bduddy #Diana#

well, I try

if you don't know ask them in a yes or no question format and assume their answer is true

Treat the response as if it's true, don't assume that it is.

Damn

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I can't even call it the fake

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Because for all I know it isn't

How are you supposed to vividly imagine your tulpa?

Do you mean visualize them?

Yes

You close your eyes and use your mind's eye.

Okay, I’ll try that

2:49 AM

I’ve just heard that, with lots of practice, it’s possible to envision your tulpa in real life really vividly as if they’re really there

yeah, sensory imposition is a real thing

I suppose it is possible, but really it sounds useless to me.

What do you mean?

it would be fun

As in how is it useless?

but it's a lot of effort for such fun

It doesn't really develop your tulpa

Like, I do not see much point in it, with how much work it takes. I do think most people, with how long it takes, usually stop caring about that, by the time they get there.

Oh, that makes sense

Most people are happy with open-eyed visualization by the time that they're deep into this, yeah.

So do I go here for questions about the people and their tulpa's or do I go to the lounge?